So I took to heart your words of advice about the nerves causing the problems with our rides. So yesterday, I didn't have alot of time to ride as it was getting dark but I was ok with it. I conciously thought "I am just going to go have a relaxing, enjoyable ride". Even if I have problem and he isn't cooperating then I will do something else. Something that he wants to do. Not really worry about: fitness, roundness, dressage tests, moving off my aides, my hands being too low, my leg being to far forward and so on... No wonder I was a bundle of nerves and passing all those nerves onto my unsuspecting horse.
That brings us to today! Yes it was that good! I decided to go as far as we could go with positive progress. I also think I had a BIG break through with my little brain. Now it seems so obvious but I didn't realize what I was doing until today. I jump on and immediately ask for supple, round. bendy dressage pony. Ummmm yeah I am sure you can all see why our work was not going well. I realized that after he has ample time to warm up his SO willing to be and do all of those things I was wanting. MAN I love this horse! He teaches me how to be a good rider and horse owner. I am glad he is so patient. So today is the best ride I have had at least since last fall and possibly to date.
Not your average OTTB given another chance at a new life and a mostly average busy Mom who never gave up on her dream to ride again. An unlikely pair at an unlikely time, learning to event and loving life!
That is so fantastic! I'm so excited for you and Steady. :D
ReplyDeleteSteady sounds like a great guy for you. So patient and responsive. It's a perfect match.
ReplyDeleteYay! And good luck at the show this weekend!
ReplyDeleteWoo hoo for a great ride! Best of luck this weekend - weather will dictate if we get there to watch.
ReplyDeleteAnd hope your vest arrived. I have found Smart Pak to be the best at delivering super fast and having everything ordered in stock. Learned the hard way a few times.